Anguttara Nikaya (Coleção dos Discursos Numerados) 1:24
SUJATOTassa taṁ ṭhānaṁ abhiṇhaṁ paccavekkhato yo piyesu manāpesu chandarāgo so sabbaso vā pahīyati tanu vā pana hoti.
Reviewing this subject often, they entirely give up desire and lust for their dear and beloved, or at least reduce it.